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Stable people think the world’s fine as it is. They don’t see any particular need to change it. Creative people don’t feel like that. People who want to change the world tend to suffer a lot for it.

- John Lloyd, on the connection of comedy with manic depressive disorder (via englanduberalles)

Being beautiful is great, but having a beautiful soul is greater and much more important. That will never age.

- (via melodychainz)

thestreetphilosopher:

Ken Wilber on compassion.

Damn straight.

thestreetphilosopher:

Ken Wilber on compassion.

Damn straight.

This is For the Women Who Don’t Give a F*ck. {Adult}

You bet.

Visited Glo with Garth.  They need to clean their patio windows.  We shared some meatballs, seared scallops and tried out two new to us craft beers.  Nice time out with my love :)

When to Un-Friend an Old Friend

Not all friendships are meant to last.  Recognize when it is time to cut rope and go your own ways.  Opt not to get sucked into fake or obligatory friendships just to make others feel better or more comfortable.  Time is limited on this Earth.  The more you cling to people who are supposed to exit your life, the less chances you will reach true contentment.  Learning to let some people go is essential to growth.

YES!

YES!

From Ruthless Compassion Ins.

"One of the best parts of being an adult is the ability we have to walk away from a hurtful person or situation. 


When we’re little, we can’t leave home if our parents are abusive; we can’t leave school if our teacher is cruel or other students are bullying us; we can’t walk out of a family gathering if our relatives are being nasty. 


Today, however, as empowered adults, we can choose to leave a situation if it’s not good for us: we can leave a job where we’re being exploited or disrespected; we can leave an apartment if the landlord is unreasonable; we can walk away from a relationship that’s hurtful or not fulfilling. 


Too often, we choose not to exercise this choice. We minimize the problem, rationalize the situation, tell ourselves that it’s too much trouble to leave. 


That’s so sad, b/c we’re squandering the opportunity we have to make things better for ourselves.


Children often find themselves stuck in situations that they’d very much like to leave. Why, when we’re adults, do we stay in bad situations or with hurtful people, when we have the power to go?”

Maybe people are hesitant to leave some people behind because they’ve been programmed to believe that keeping unhealthy people in their lives is necessary.  They don’t realize that when one opts to keep people who aren’t good for the soul around, it can slowly poison the things and people who are truly good for the soul.  I make it a point to walk away from anyone who gives me really bad vibes.  My gut says run and I listen.

I like Walt Whitman’s writing.

I like Walt Whitman’s writing.

Be whole, regardless and make no apologies for that.

Be whole, regardless and make no apologies for that.

Had a great time on the Defenders MC poker run with my love & life partner, Garth.  Our bond has become even stronger recently after we resolved some hiccups and he showed me that I am very valuable in his life.  It’s his actions that I put my faith and trust in.  I have never loved anyone like this before. 

Had a great time on the Defenders MC poker run with my love & life partner, Garth.  Our bond has become even stronger recently after we resolved some hiccups and he showed me that I am very valuable in his life.  It’s his actions that I put my faith and trust in.  I have never loved anyone like this before. 

Exactly.

Exactly.

It took me a few times but I can recognize the difference between a true compliment and a fake flatterer these days.  Thanks to the insincere for teaching me :)

It took me a few times but I can recognize the difference between a true compliment and a fake flatterer these days.  Thanks to the insincere for teaching me :)

Fergy’s Suzuki sportbike.  She calls him, Baby Bill.  Kill Bill bike is still in repair shop.

Fergy’s Suzuki sportbike.  She calls him, Baby Bill.  Kill Bill bike is still in repair shop.